Mother’s Day: Just for Moms, or Do Grandmas Get a Piece of the Pie Too?

It’s that time of year again when flowers inexplicably skyrocket in price and you can’t find a brunch reservation for love nor money. Yes, it’s Mother’s Day—a day dedicated to celebrating the incredible women who raised us. But here lies the annual dilemma that stirs up family group chats and causes subtle side-eyes at family gatherings: Should the day be exclusively for moms, or do grandmothers deserve to share the spotlight? Let’s dive into this playful debate with all the seriousness of choosing the last slice of cake at a birthday party.

Team Mom-Only: Save the Day for Our Everyday Heroes

On one side of the picket fence, we have Team Mom-Only, armed with homemade cards and arguments as strong as mom’s coffee. The advocates of a moms-only Mother’s Day argue that this day should be solely dedicated to celebrating our immediate maternal figures—the mothers who are in the trenches of parenthood day in and day out. They argue that moms are the ones currently in the eye of the parenting storm, dealing with everything from diaper disasters to teenage drama, and they deserve a day that acknowledges their ongoing sacrifices and love.

Supporters might say, “Mother’s Day is about giving mom a break from all the chaos. It’s her day to sleep in, get pampered, and not worry about if her socks match. Let’s keep this day just about spoiling her rotten!”

Team Grand-Inclusion: Bring on the Granny Love!

Leaping over the fence with a plate of freshly baked cookies are the proponents of Team Grand-Inclusion, who believe that grandmothers should be equally celebrated on Mother’s Day. After all, grandmas are moms too—just with more wrinkles and recipes! They’ve done their time in the parenting leagues and have now graduated to the role of family matriarch, offering wisdom, knitted sweaters, and that oh-so-special brand of spoiling only a grandma can give.

These folks might argue, “Grandmas are the secret ingredient in the family recipe! They’ve been through it all before, and now they guide us with their sage advice and stories from ‘back in the day.’ Celebrating them on Mother’s Day isn’t just nice—it’s a family must!”

Why Not Both? It’s a Big Pie!

Why decide on who gets the day when we can celebrate all maternal figures in our lives? Just like a pie, there’s enough to go around if we slice it right. Celebrating both moms and grandmas doesn’t dilute the specialness of the day—it enhances it by recognizing the layered love and heritage that shapes us.

Imagine a Mother’s Day filled with three generations of women sharing stories, laughter, and maybe a friendly debate on whether “back in my day” was indeed tougher. It’s a chance to acknowledge not only the sacrifices but also the continuum of motherhood that flows through families, enriching each generation.

Let Them Eat Cake (Or Pie!)

At the end of the day, whether you’re Team Mom-Only or Team Grand-Inclusion, perhaps what matters most is the spirit of the celebration—honoring the love, hard work, and dedication of all the moms in our lives, whether they come with their original hair color or a more ‘silver’ style.

So, this Mother’s Day, why not raise a toast (or a teacup) to all the moms and grandmas? After all, when it comes to celebrating the amazing women in our lives, more is merrier, and frankly, everyone deserves a piece of the pie—or cake, or cookie, or whatever your family tradition dictates. Happy Mother’s Day to all, and to all a good brunch!